Hello Frank,
You are very smart, just letting it go as is fine by me, if you'd like that. It was a simply curious and odd situation.
However, You can email me to my email address, if you'd like to know since I'm the one who met her face to face and spoke with her on specific's.
I don't care to share about this on group.
Emails are a funny thing, it does not depict many people as they really are and assumptions can easily taken the wrong way sometimes, as emails are not always viewed in 'truth' as far as one's true meaning behind what they are trying to convey, most often when you actually can tell in response or no response.
That's not assumption, this is Evident when you get no responses on valuable VP questions and or curious about things as I always
am about anything that I am learning about.
I am not a student of anyone in particular here, I do glean information from the posts that inform me of things that I do not know and am glad to learn and grateful for that aspect.
I can write Evident intentions yet, I have no desire to explain anything to anyone that has no investment in getting to know who I am as a person.
The only way to have this dynamic, is to have a two way street and I've yet to experience that among the group as a whole," thus far ".
You can't lose anything that you've never had aside from now visibly, hopes until reality kicked in and giving some credit where it is not earned or deserved at this juncture so, nothing tangible is lost or gained. Just intangible things that have deflated and non existent at the moment, due to Reality.
In the Personal Aspect :
No one that doesn't really know you cannot 'see' true personality traits without
equal communication.
Sometimes see some things that I write through skewed eyes (to distort; depict unfairly).
I HAVE NO IDEA if this case in point is True or Present here in this group ? Clueless.
No one has ever been rude to me or taken my emails wrong as far as I know ? and it may just be that no one here holds value in helping newer VP players to learn by a simple reply...aside from the Few that have responded and those individuals do not apply to the other 98% of members that have dismissed my questions.
In the area of no replies, it does lend
for curiosity and decision making in whether to stay here on in a "less than likely to receive any answers or replies to my posts" group,
that I joined for reasons further below.
The fact of the multiple non replies to the actual VP questions
I bring 'some' other questions up for fun (SO WHAT?) and The others that are Clearly Earnest Questions such as: about my observance and questions about the way different people play, etc. this type of sincere genuine questions from someone New to the game although, hundreds of hours investing in training, enough to remain in the Positive since we have been here in Nov. and went from Nickel play to 25 cents within at most, 20 Casino sessions and practicing countless hours per week at home.
The very loud silence of non response from those that I had a higher regard than apparently deserved, has dwindled to non regard after enough non replies....
that Clearly was the catalyst that
brought on the thinking that I should find another VP group with pro members, that remember where they came from and that someone invested a little or a lot time for you in one way or another - no matter who you are. Just because I do not want to become Pro, has NO bearing on the fact that I want to learn how to play like one.
If you think that I haven't paid my dues in life, you are sorely mistaken. I've paid as much dues to know the Why of the truth that I am an expert at as far as my field as Anyone has ever paid in what they have accomplished so, it may not be the same Genre' but, a seasoned, veteran - I AM.
I am honored to help others that might need a hand up in their marketing skills and it makes me even More Successful and Richer than I ever hoped or dreamed of in a well rounded way. Most of ALL - I am Highly Respected by my Peers and those who have invested in knowing me as well as equal reciprocation in any group that I've found
like minded people. Blood, sweat and tears, I know so well, that I am writing a book about my journey that is intended to help others avoid my falls and pain of learning the hard way.
People that with hold information to someone in the group that is there to learn as an equally valued person, get no respect from me. That's about as simplistic and clear enough as I can be.
Common courtesy seems to have left the building as far as responding to someone like me, that has a Genuine desire to learn Along with develop friendships. (thus, the fun in my posts along with serious portions as well, a child can understand the difference between 'happy go lucky' and serious statements and or questions).
I wonder if I post the question :
"Does anyone know of a VP pro group that on the 'whole' are genuinely respectable and kind to reply and develop friends with the common interest or simply getting to know each other ?
One that
welcomes members like myself, New to VP (newer is a better word now) along with being New to the City and have good people, that also happen to be VP Pro's, that don't mind answering sincere questions pertaining to any aspect of the game ?
....again, to those of you that have displayed character and courtesy in replying, this does not apply to the few members that have replied.
I wonder if it will get a response ?
it's not the greatest odds, if the past few months dictates the Now. However, I can always think randomly..hehe
The VERY Few responses to questions or an in general VP report of playing post
... that I have received back either on group or via personal email have been greatly appreciated as each response is valued as I have been honorable in conduct and have posted many courteous, encouraging and positive replies in this group , nothing about this topic pertains to you that have been courteous and the
numbers are less than a minority in this group but, appreciated all the same because, I deserve what I give.
Those who are Truly Beautiful, have no need to look in the mirror to know it. Although, when you do, you see just who you expected.
My purpose here is nothing outside of gaining knowledge by reading some of the informative posts yet more importantly, Receiving answers and replies to my posts as I reply to others, also, getting to know each other through an Equal communication (investment) and possibly forming friendships in an area of common interest and as someone New to Las Vegas and the desire to learn how to play like a pro in VP is all I joined this group for..again, Simplistic, Realistic, Logical.
So, more facts.
Many of the recent posts are Excellent examples of misunderstandings as you, Frank, understand very well.
Only three people
have invested in me (as far as making honest efforts in communicating through emails) and I replied or started the conversation as is necessary to get to know someone. One, dropped the ball and for what ? no clue whatsoever. There was no argument, just an end to communication like they have dealt with themselves so, maybe that's an insight as to why.
One person, earned my respect in a most simplistic way in this group. This person earned my respect with evident character and invested in me with an Equal respect for seeing 'me' through my note !
It was an honor to converse with that person that is genuinely humble and he owns, has or has accomplished probably more than anyone that I have talked to here (not too many) in his mannerism of speech and strength in character by knowing when he encounters like-minded people - he has the Respect that he has Earned in life, even from someone that just has the insight to 'see' this in others. I am not
Humble like he is, I only strive to be like that !! Not very well either..lol..though, I admit this lessor strength, I will also say that my heart and depth in character is Gold and anyone that has not take the time to know me, has lost out on a Great Friend and Ally. However, those that deliberately did not reply, I am ever Thankful that you did not !
I find it hard to believe that I've met just this ONE individual here that I carry this amount of respect for as they earned it in the simplest manner of being genuine and I believe that I earned theirs as well and I did not even talk about VP questions, it was a mutual respect for Accomplishment, no matter what field you are in and mutual character aspects that lends to a success that money cannot buy..yet, the building blocks of True success all the way around. He or I could 'teach' on that part of fulfilling your dreams.
It's not like a great girlfriend thing. It is more like
meeting someone that happens to be extremely knowledgeable in VP, and the greatest of possibilities more so, than any VP pro here that could possibly use a dose of what he and I equally possess inside yet, not something easily obtained by any means. Rich character and knowledge is a far greater success than any amount of cash, though both are born out of the first, to be truly fulfilled without the first part, the 2nd part is empty.
It's just not been here for me personally, as a whole or even 1/4 of a group where those who 'can' courteously respond but 'choose' not to reply,
....it is a loud silence when you are sitting in a room full of pros in the area of achieving success in 'playing VP'.
I am not impressed with anyone in the world that obtains something, belongs to a group of their expertise and does not make the time to reply to Newer' players, nor do I respect the devoid of courtesy.
Buy my book to
find out...LOL..I might have, how do you know ? and for SURE, I won't confirm or deny..
The proof is in the pudding, when there are no answers to an earnest question.
I am not talking about frivolous questions that I have posted and as smart as some of you may be, I cannot get the answers to the Evident to one with 1/2 a brain to see that they are Honest, Earnest questions.
The frivolous questions have all been 'in fun' and wow, is it that hard to tell ? or too hard to comprehend for such intelligent people ?
No Rant or even Anger in my heart. These are simply just open, honest observance opinions, along with valid questions.
Therefore, if anyone can take the time to suggest the kind of group that is a normal request from someone both new to VP and this City ..a respectful, courteous answer will be appreciate. Anything outside of common courtesy is always the choice of your conscience and true character. I can only control
myself and in that truth, I believe in 2nd chances, especially, since you may be oblivious to your own non responses and never intended to lose the respect that was only lost due to the account of these truthful facts.
Nevertheless, due to who I am, I don't hold ill will as I am very human and have overlooked things at lessor points of my life. Albeit, being successful on the inside has its benefits to others and results in finding more success in helping others. I am Far from perfect and readily admit when I am wrong however, if I am 'just' in my words and actions, there is no back up in this gal. I do not waste my time when it comes to unteachable, closed individuals that are a waste of my valuable time, when it could be spent helping someone that is sincere, since the one's that are closed or just have no common sense, cannot be convinced that they do not know it all.
That's all folks :-)
~ ¤(¯`*•.¸(¯`*•.¸ Meredith ¸.•*´¯)¸.•*´¯)¤ ~
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I'm curious as to why you thought she worked for me?
~FK
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