I haven't caught up on all the digests yet but I couldn't help noticing all
the angst on this topic.
Some wanted to justify why they were being cheap, others why they were
being considerate (and maybe generous).
Last year I cut my tips in half on the advice of a pro. At that level it
was still more than she would have left. However, I didn't feel good about
it so now I'm back to what makes me feel good.
The rule of thumb that I use is do what makes me feel good except when I'm
with other people then it's important to consider how they do things &
adjust accordingly. When gambling, I'm normally alone so I'll tip what I
consider appropriate without regard to the recipient's job, life history, etc.
When dining, I'm often with other people, I'll tip according to what I think
is the group norm so as not to make anyone look cheap, especially in a
place where I know they come frequently.
In the end, regardless of what you may read here, do whatever makes YOU
feel good.
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